Sunday, February 26, 2012

Advice from Aunt Wicked

Dear First Love of Lil Wicked:

Let me start off by saying that when I became an Aunt for the first time, I was delighted in seeing the world through Lil Wicked's eyes. I have to say that the past month has been gut wrenching watching my niece experience her first heart ache.

So First Love, I have some advice for you. I am a firm believer that it is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. That being said, watching how you are behaving during the end of this romance has me concerned for your future relationships. Trust me First Love, Lil Wicked is going to come out of this stronger than she went into it and most certainly wiser and with her pride at it's highest. You on the other hand are setting yourself up for failure each and every time. Be a "man" and either give each other the closure you both deserve or shut it down entirely. Let me be blunt, stop texting my niece and then act like she is invisible during school.

Lil Wicked has been more than supportive of your inability to communicate. She has gone above and beyond while you remain weak and passive. I feel sorry for you. Although I don't exactly know what spurred the end of the relationship, I have a pretty good idea. Your silence and inaction's speak volumes.

Grow a pair and handle your demons as they come otherwise you will become a bitter and lonely boy/man. There are many facets to growing up and the sooner you learn how to navigate the waters, the easier the process will be.

She doesn't know it yet but Lil Wicked will come out of this just fine. She has an excellent support system. I wish the same for you, truly.

Love and kisses - Aunt Wicked


sophie said...

Oh holy cow! Do we need to knee-cap him? So sorry for Lil Wicked. Glad she has such amazing support.

Now you gave me something else to fear about Pumpkinhead. I may not be as restrained as you are.

Wicked H said...

Oh Sophie, be prepared. As for Pumpkinhead, be supportive when needed.


Nutcracker Sweet 54 said...

Just saw this... I'm a day late and a dollar short :( she's doing much better. Actually she is a lot like you in that she holds a grudge. He'll hath no fury like a Lil Wicked scorned
Thanks for being such a supportive Aunt!