Saturday, May 22, 2010

Sad Situation


Things, good and bad, come in threes.

Normal daily activities of late have been more than overwhelming, therefore the flowing of creative juices has been stymied. By the end of this week, I realized that certain things are in my control and I really need to just get over myself. I won’t go into detail; it isn’t the reason for this post. I recognize that it is up to me to make lemonade.

In the span of 2 weeks, my family has received three separate and increasingly demoralizing bits of information. We have a very odd unspoken rule regarding not sharing bad news the second we learn of it. It depends on the situation however my excuse it to with hold the tidbit until all facts materialize and then release it to my inner circle. I have found that it is easier to deal all data when it is clearly displayed. What ifs definitely do not work in my family. Another reason to censor is to get hold of my initial reaction before I try to offer comfort to others. It may not be right, but it is how we collectively deal with life.

I wish I had the ability to step in and control the outcome of these three scenarios. Unfortunately, all I can do is be supportive, remain optimistic and pray. Along with things happening in groups of three they also seem to happen for a reason. I would give anything to know that reason and do everything in my power to make it all better. Right now.

Mantra: Pray, optimism and support. It's all I can do.


Pinar B. said...

Hopefully your situations will resolve themselves without leaving anyone devastated. I'm in the same boat myself right now, just got the last part of the bad news trifecta yesterday. Can that bad news in 3's rule please stop. One at a time is so much easier....

Wicked H said...

Pinar: sorry to hear that. Sending much love your way

Nutcracker Sweet 54 said...

Pinar B. and Wicked H....unfortunately we are all in the same boat, which at this time seems to be taking on alot of water. I pray for all involved and may this terrible storm of bad news be over soon for all of us.

Karina said...

I haven't been by in a VERY long time, and today when I logged into google reader after months away, I saw this post.

I hope all is well, and just know you are in my prayers.


Music quiz said...

Once in life time everyone can face a bad situation like you are now. But I think this will not prevail too long and you will come out to this soon.